Archive - lola's archive

this is how to let go (i think)

high school graduation, six beers, carrie bradshaw, and closure

Jul 6 •

May 2025

i thought growing up would hurt less

no one told me the pain is never ending…

May 15 •

November 2024

love is not a castle you build

i'm learning what love is and where to find it

Nov 28, 2024 •

October 2024

on "no contacts"

you did not “break no contact,” you’re in love with your ex

Oct 30, 2024 •

the friend behind the glass

why i've stopped texting my friends

Oct 16, 2024 •

weird girls need love too!

i nearly feel into the sea and now i have a lot to say on love

Oct 2, 2024 •

September 2024

defending summer finn, the failed candid girlfriend

a character analysis and written defense of the (500) days of summer character summer finn

Sep 10, 2024 •

August 2024

does my diary think i'm cool??????

why i can't journal.

Aug 28, 2024 •

"brat girl summer" didn't set the "clean girls" free

To escape curated personas, we need to move away from mood boards and embrace authenticity.

Aug 25, 2024 •

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