This is SO RELATABLE. I just had my first break up, and I can feel myself emnrace my weirdness again. Maybe I won't get another guy, and there is a certain liberation in not being bound by being pretty and pulling guys. Yes, sometimes, I do want that feeling, the feeling to be loved. But I'm not changing myself. Until, then, I'll just be weird and enjoy life<3
this is so touching, heartbreaking and really deep. i really love how you describe this post-relationship emotional balancing act, and just generally the color to how this is written. i really, really hope that, since I'm seeing this a lot later, in the time since this essay was published, things have gotten better for you. i hope you have a great 2025 :)
Tim you're going to make me cry!! Thank you so much for your kind words I really appreciate it 🫶🫶 and yes things did get better I guess healing just takes time. Happy new year I hope you have the best year 🥰🥰
i absolutely love this. the theme of never being chosen hits SO hard. you’re extremely relatable. but i agree, weird girls need love too. i’d rather have individuality than appeal to the male gaze 24/7
Hey there! I just wanted to say how much I love your content—it's so relatable! I just subscribed and can’t wait to read more. I appreciate how you capture that limbo of heartbreak and healing; it’s a reminder that we’re all just trying to navigate our feelings and find our place. Would love to connect more! 💖
Hi!!!! This comment absolutely made my day I'm so happy I could voice your feelings while rambling. Hopefully, I'll write a peace on getting over next 😭 Thank you so much for your support I hope you like my future posts 🫶🫶🫶
beautifully written! rlly encapsulates that horrible feeling of never being the one ‘chosen’ but i think it’s better to have a sense of individuality rather than be really appealing to men ⭐️⭐️
very true and i think once you are “wanted” and seen for the first time it’s very hard to let go off. but u will find someone else that loves you for who u are 😖⭐️
I have a feeling weird girls love you back
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this is so teenage girl
I was thinking “omg this is so eya coded” 😭
omg shut up thats such an honor
#no1eyafan
ur talking to the no1 lola fan !!!!!
This is SO RELATABLE. I just had my first break up, and I can feel myself emnrace my weirdness again. Maybe I won't get another guy, and there is a certain liberation in not being bound by being pretty and pulling guys. Yes, sometimes, I do want that feeling, the feeling to be loved. But I'm not changing myself. Until, then, I'll just be weird and enjoy life<3
I swear everything gets 100x better once you start getting over them. Being weird is cool!!!
Ahhh thank you sooo muchh I love your it means so much😭💞
this is so beautiful 💕🫶🏾🫶🏾
hello i love you <333
this is so touching, heartbreaking and really deep. i really love how you describe this post-relationship emotional balancing act, and just generally the color to how this is written. i really, really hope that, since I'm seeing this a lot later, in the time since this essay was published, things have gotten better for you. i hope you have a great 2025 :)
Tim you're going to make me cry!! Thank you so much for your kind words I really appreciate it 🫶🫶 and yes things did get better I guess healing just takes time. Happy new year I hope you have the best year 🥰🥰
thank you :)
I'm really glad to hear you're doing better!
This is so stunning and cathartic!! It spoke directly to my soul istg
Thank you so much Katyayani! Sending you love 🫶🫶
thank you.
Sending u so much love 🫶
I see you and have been seen at the same time just saying
Oh I love you 🫶
Almost shed a tear reading this, I resonate with this so much 🥹🥹. Thank you so much for writing this 🫶
Thank YOU Akira for reading!! Sending you all my love 🫶🫶🫶
I love this so much and can relate with my whole heart!! This post is what I'll be thinking of every day from now on
Thank you so much you're gonna make me cry 😭🫶
i absolutely love this. the theme of never being chosen hits SO hard. you’re extremely relatable. but i agree, weird girls need love too. i’d rather have individuality than appeal to the male gaze 24/7
thank you so much harleen!!! sending you so much love 🫶🫶
i feel you so much, this is just perfect
sending you all my love 🫶
this was so deep, and I truly understand where you're coming from
i had to let of past relationships, your future is bright and God has a plan for you
Thank you so much Dasia! Both for your support and kind message 🫶🫶🫶
A beautiful read:)
Thank you so much 🫶🫶🫶
Hey there! I just wanted to say how much I love your content—it's so relatable! I just subscribed and can’t wait to read more. I appreciate how you capture that limbo of heartbreak and healing; it’s a reminder that we’re all just trying to navigate our feelings and find our place. Would love to connect more! 💖
Hi!!!! This comment absolutely made my day I'm so happy I could voice your feelings while rambling. Hopefully, I'll write a peace on getting over next 😭 Thank you so much for your support I hope you like my future posts 🫶🫶🫶
beautifully written! rlly encapsulates that horrible feeling of never being the one ‘chosen’ but i think it’s better to have a sense of individuality rather than be really appealing to men ⭐️⭐️
Thank you so much 🫶 I guess being in high school and seeing you're missing out stings the most. Wanting to be wanted is a blessing and a curse 💔
very true and i think once you are “wanted” and seen for the first time it’s very hard to let go off. but u will find someone else that loves you for who u are 😖⭐️