"If the point of a breakup is to cut contact, then there wouldn't be a stage called "no contact;” you simply wouldn't talk to them. The state of “no contact” creates an artificiality in one of the most natural things about a relationship: its ending. Your loneliness becomes intentional the second you force yourself into the phase of “no contact.” It’s a cover for you to stay obsessed, to have an excuse to not get over it. As your “no contact calendar” progresses, it gives the illusion of healing."
THAT ENTIRE PARAGRAPH + THE ONE AFTER IT !? i think my frontal lobe just developed
I texted my ex several days ago after 3 months couldn’t deny I still want him
He has been broadly MIA for over a week I think he may be dead
oh damn i hope he's alive 😭 (unless you want him dead then it's fine)
love this love you lesson learned im breaking no contact
i love you more!!!!! LMAO if you're gonna reach out let's hope it ends better than my attempt 💔💔💔
"If the point of a breakup is to cut contact, then there wouldn't be a stage called "no contact;” you simply wouldn't talk to them. The state of “no contact” creates an artificiality in one of the most natural things about a relationship: its ending. Your loneliness becomes intentional the second you force yourself into the phase of “no contact.” It’s a cover for you to stay obsessed, to have an excuse to not get over it. As your “no contact calendar” progresses, it gives the illusion of healing."
THAT ENTIRE PARAGRAPH + THE ONE AFTER IT !? i think my frontal lobe just developed
growing up together fr 😛
this is so good
eya i love u